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Occasional thoughts on faith and every day life in Michigan and overseas
Ruth's Reflections
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ruthlemmen
May 14, 2020
Food and Formation
One way I’ve been dealing with my re-entry shock and our isolation is by experimenting with cooking Chinese food. I didn’t cook Chinese...
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ruthlemmen
Sep 28, 2019
Power Tools or Vulnerability Tools
In my first class for my middle school students, I showed the students these two photos. I asked them which one they would choose if...
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ruthlemmen
Mar 13, 2019
Often the Stranger
A couple weeks ago, I read “Never the Stranger” by Kate Kooyman on The Twelve blog about not just offering, but receiving hospitality. ...
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ruthlemmen
Jun 22, 2018
You Know You Live in China When
There’s a metaphor in cross-cultural training that goes something like this: your home culture is a yellow culture and has yellow ways to...
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ruthlemmen
Jun 9, 2018
Staying, Leaving, and Loud Emotions
There is a familiar rhythm to this time of year in the expat world: it is saying goodbye time. Many people conclude their time overseas...
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ruthlemmen
May 18, 2018
Curly Hair Chronicles: Cutting My Own Hair
My naturally curly hair and Beijing are not on good terms. The weather is not ideal for curls–too dry in the winter and too humid in the...
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ruthlemmen
May 4, 2018
Death of a Dream
The day I enjoyed the tulips, I also saw something that made my heart heavy: a “marriage market.” I’d heard of this phenomenon in China,...
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ruthlemmen
Nov 26, 2017
Creating Thanksgiving in China
Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday. I love the memories from when I was young and all my aunts, uncles, and cousins gathered...
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ruthlemmen
Aug 18, 2017
Living As An Acceptable Outsider
On my last trip to the Great Wall, about five minutes after I arrived at the top of the wall, a kid (maybe about 12) mustered up the...
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ruthlemmen
May 17, 2017
Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Matchmaking is alive and well in China. Not through an official matchmaker, but through everyone’s efforts, especially those over 50....
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ruthlemmen
Feb 21, 2017
Dumpling Recipe
One of my favorite memories from the time I was in the U.S. this fall was teaching several groups of people to make Chinese dumplings....
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ruthlemmen
Feb 16, 2017
A Crash Course on Moving in China
My first project after returning to China was finding a new apartment. The landlord of my previous apartment sold it, so I couldn’t...
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ruthlemmen
Aug 3, 2016
The Green Beans Recipe
Every time I post about my attempts to cook Chinese food, American friends who have lived in China ask about The Green Beans. This dish...
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ruthlemmen
Apr 2, 2016
Spring in Beijing
Spring has arrived in Beijing! Actually, we had a day or two this past week that felt like summer was about to arrive (but most people...
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ruthlemmen
Feb 19, 2016
Christmas is Like Spring Festival, Right?
Spring Festival (aka Chinese New Year) comes to an official end on Monday. Throughout these weeks, a couple people have said something...
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ruthlemmen
Jan 2, 2016
Invest and Delight
A year ago, encouraged by Velvet Ashes, I picked a word for 2015. I honestly wasn’t completely sold on picking one word, so I didn’t...
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ruthlemmen
Nov 22, 2015
It Snowed in Beijing!
Last winter, I saw snow on the ground ONCE, and it wasn’t very much snow. Winter was cold and dry. After surviving the previous winter,...
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ruthlemmen
Nov 19, 2015
This Is China
Foreigners in China have a phrase, “this is China,” sometimes abbreviated T.I.C. It is usually used to describe situations that don’t go...
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ruthlemmen
Oct 7, 2015
Happy Mid-Autumn Festival
中秋节快乐! zhōng qiū jié kuài lè ! Happy Mid-Autumn Festival! A few weeks ago (September 27), we celebrated Mid-Autumn Festival, one of...
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ruthlemmen
Sep 19, 2015
Unexpected T-shirts: Take 2
Earlier this summer I shared the top 10 unexpected t-shirts I had seen to that point. After I posted it, I kept seeing interesting...
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